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Journal Writing`bIbIgPaPaPaPaPaGaGaI"b!P-a.H6a7KAbCGJaLP]a^Poj^Poj GojaGoj#&How do you respond to Rosenfeld's advice? Do you think the same kind of ad'( would apply to breaking up with a boyfriend or girlfriend in a long-term romantic r( tionship? In your journal, explore why, or why not. (To take your journal writing( ther, see "From Journal to Essay" on the next page.)'LTR5'""12BBMM\\kl{{33CCMN\\nnzw $$::IIVVccst  ""01IJWWccst{| %%..:<JLZ]cerrzz  !0088LNTW_aqqyy))00=@FHQSY[fdnovw  %(12>@JKcckktu  )+22BEMMUU_`rrzz((67FFVX__oozz  ,,55FFVWacggss{|  ''/1ABQQ^]nm|}       $ &34@ @K KUWg gqq             " ", ,= =G HQ S_ anp{{            " "23@ AOP\ _cgo go '&&&&LTRo 4JQuestions on MeaningVOqnsWhWiVhQhOgWhVhVhViWiViP!i!P?h@WPiQWahbWrhtO|h~ViVqVqVOqiVOq,# @1. Rosenfeld's process has three distinct stages. What are they?A>A&&56@ANO`_ljwx  --77AAJI\]ggtv  '(56@BFFOOpo   A@@@ =@8# 2. 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